Relationship advice from the friend you call at 12am. Honest, a little mean, but always on your side.

ABOUT

I'm the friend you call in the middle of a spiral. I'll remind you how loved you are, then ask why you're crying over a raccoon with a nose piercing.

I've been where you are — the mess, the chaos, the "why do I keep doing this." Friends With Deficits is where we laugh at the wreckage, tell the truth, and find our way back to ourselves.

Send me your mess. I'll send you back your worth.

S E N D M E Y O U R M E S S

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