Home Loganville Tribune Opinion Columns Sharon Swanepoel .COLUMN: The gift of charity — a Christmas story
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By Sharon Swanepoel | 0 comments
At this time of the year, I get to meet so many people who embody the true spirit of Christmas and I usually don't think to question why it is they do what they do. Yet when someone does something wrong, we always question why.
The following is an explanation by someone many of us know who gave me his reason for doing what he does, not just at Christmas but as a way of life. He named it simply "Charity."
The real reward of charity is rarely seen by the person giving it. Many times it will simmer for years before it begins to multiply and what you give today goes on to help hundreds of other people.
There once was a homeless teenage man walking down the streets of Virginia Beach. A hotel owner was sitting outside his office smoking a cigarette and enjoying a cool fall day. When the homeless man walked by he asked, "How are you today?" The homeless man stopped and began telling him of how he just got a job at a construction site on the beach and things were beginning to come together for him. The man suddenly became interested and began asking more questions about where the homeless man was from and what he was doing in Virginia. As the homeless man began telling his story, the hotel owner began to tear up and became very uncomfortable. He stood up, walked inside his office and came out with a key. He threw it to the young man and said, "Leave it like you found it," he said. "God has been good to me and I feel your spirit is good, so I will allow you to stay here for free with no strings attached."
The homeless man stood and stared for a few seconds in disbelief. He thought, "Why would this total stranger want to help me?"
As it turned out, there were no strings attached. The homeless man stayed one night and left the room the way he found it. The hotel owner never saw the man again and had no idea the impact this small charitable act had on this man.
Throughout his life, the homeless man has helped hundreds of people in need and continues that same role today. He contributes heavily to all sorts of children's charities and is thankful for all the blessings in his own life.
That homeless man was me and from that experience, when I was at the bottom of my life, God reached out his hand through a total stranger and touched my heart. For that I am eternally grateful. It is important for us all to find the joy in our own lives that comes from sharing. Charity is like gardening, you never know if the seed planted will produce a bounty or remain a seed, yet still we plant with the intention of feeding many.
That was the story of Jim Watson of North American Tree Service in Loganville and band member of Fishing With Dynamite. He chose not to share how or why he ended up in Virginia Beach at 17, homeless and perhaps a little hopeless. He chose only to share the impact a stranger's charity had on his life.
I have been told by many of the charity Jim and his wife, Carol, extend to the community on a personal level. Fishing With Dynamite's contribution also is legendary, which is why the band was named one of The Tribune's Unsung Heroes earlier this year. On that note, true to form, the band is contributing in yet another area. The new song they've released has embedded in the video the information of real missing children. The hope is the more successful the video becomes the more chance there is of someone recognizing one of those little lost faces. The video can be found at
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvuTeDPzZ-o
So as we ready to spread Christmas cheer to family and friends this weekend, remember the lesson Jim learned in his youth. The gift of charity rarely costs much, but it can plant a seed that produces an abundant crop for a lifetime.
Merry Christmas!